Been reading this book call –
Men are from Mars, women are from Venus.
Its about male-female relationship and is very true man.


Basically, its says that man, the Martians value power, competency, efficiency and achievements.
They achieve happiness by their success.
While women are emotional creatures who cares about love and values.
They are more concerned about harmony, community rather than work.


This makes men and women different.
Want to stay tgt. Both parties must first know the differences.


The most common mistakes is that the girl wants the guy to be what they want and samewise for the guy. ITS NORMAL. So prevent us from communicating lovingly and about our differences.


We mistakenly assume that if our partners love us they will react when and behave in certain ways – the ways we react and behave when we love someone.


Falling in love is always magical. With the best and most loving intentions love cont to dies when daily life emerges.
We become demanding, resentful, judgement and intolerant.
The resentment builds.
Communication breaks down.
Mistrust increases.
Rejection repression result.
The magic of love is lost.


When men and women are able to respect and accept their differences then love has a chance to blossom.


Thus we must always remember our differences.
Mens are competent and sees on efficiency.
Thus mens always want to find solutions and if they find one, they stick with it.
Like machine is not spoilt what for change?
HOWEVER, woman are different.
They likes changes and they tends to give advises because they feel changing one is a form of love.
But they do not realize they offend their mates. Do not give advises if not a man will feel there are incompetent.


Women are emotional creatures.
They likes to speak up and says what they need.
and if a woman encounter a problem, she tends to talk to her mates cos she only wants her mates to LISTEN.
However after listening, guys would be forming some kinda formula to help her. But more problems, the guys will not be able to solve all of them. Now guys feel irritated while woman too cos….. woman only wants to be heared and mayb a hug?
But guys keep giving solns which woman cant listen. Yup.


Haha! I think I typed too much. Next time type second part ba. But the book is really nice and make me realize lots of things that I didn’t know.
I hope all couples happy ya. :D


UNDERSTANDING IS THE WORD.