When men feels stressed, he will go into his cave and lets nobody in.
and hence woman should leave him alone.
However, most women wont know and thus feels panic.
Because men pulls away without any explanation .
she panics and run after him as she thought she done smth wrong or afraid he’ll never be back.
To make matter worse, she feel powerless to get him back because she don’t know what turns him off.
She doesn’t know that this is just part of his intimacy cycle.
And since women feel that talking to her men and asking about their problem is an act of love and care.
But men would want them to leave him alone so that he can relax and solve their own problem.
When she asks him whats the matter or talks about it. He doesn’t have a clear ans and so he resist talking about it. He just continues to distance her more.

Why men and women doubt their love.
W/o an understanding of this cycle. It is easy how men and women begin to doubt their love. She could easily assume that he didn’t love her anymore. Without the chance of didn’t get pulled away. He could easily thinks he don’t love her anymore.
After learning that, women should let man have their space. But most women just run after them. And so men pull away when women get closer cos she’s feels lost. Its part of nature. Men tends to pull away and come back like a rubber band. Thus women should just do other things to distract herself instead of wanting to know what turns him off.

Just trust your man. however, man should in turn cooperates and giving what a women needs.

Anw, what i wrote is all kinda abt how women should understand man, cos im a women. haha! i skipped how man should treat women. haha! in case you think women should always be the one giving and that the one in the wrong or smth. ha!

Disclaimer: This is not representative of the book. Its just what I feel after reading. Lol! In case I get law suit. LOL!

in addition, women should also understand that man's scoring points and women scoring point is different. man give themselves points by 10, 20 ans 30. while women give points by 1, 2, 3.
For example when a men text a woman when he's busy. he may give himselves 10 points. however, woman would only give one point.
knowging the difference, woman should understand small little things men do and be appreciative. :)