Women are like waves
She goes up and down in her well.

When a woman goes into her well, she is consciously sinking into her unconscious self, into the darkness.

She suddenly feels a host of unexplained emotions and vague feeling.

She feels hopeless, thinking she is all alone and unsupported.

But if she reaches the bottom of the well, she feels great again and be her loving and caring self.
When her wave is at the bottom, men should understand and care when she needs at times, otherwise he will make unreasonable demands.

In a relationship, men pull back and then get close,
While women rise and fall in their ability to love
themselves and others.

A man would assume that her sudden change of mood is based on him and may feel extremely frustrated. When women is down, don’t try to fix it or explained it.
A story goes like this.

A man don’t understand his wife as for weeks she is the most amazing woman ever. Then suddenly she feels overwhelmed and start deproving the man. Its not the man fault that she is unhappy. The man explain to her but they get into bigger fights.

Like many man, he makes mistakes by pulling the woman back and not let it settle down. When woman crash, instead of listening to her with caring and warmth, he would usually bring her back up with explanation and why she should not be so upset and make demands not to be so upset. What she needs when she is down is not someone telling her why she shouldn’t be down but listen to her and shares her feeling, empathize with her. Even if man don’t understand why she feels overwhelmed, he can offer his love, attention and support.

To be continued.. lol!
Based on the book: Men are from mars, women are from venus.